Health - Psychology. Aggressive Child with Classmates: How to React?

Between 14 and 18 months, aggression naturally appears in children, along with frustrations related to autonomy. Indeed, children discover that things don't always go as they wish, and sometimes they are unable to express their anger or discomfort in any other way. Biting, hitting, or pushing are behaviors that also allow children to explore their limits and test the reactions of those around them.

When faced with this type of behavior, the first rule is to remain calm. Yelling, punishing, or responding with violence is never the solution. On the contrary, it can only increase the child's confusion, as they seek a clear response to their actions. But it's crucial not to accept that your child hits or bites you, even if they're young. If the child bites or hits, you must firmly show them that this behavior is unacceptable.

At this age, children need boundaries. Saying "no" calmly but decisively is essential to make them understand that they can't do everything. Follow up this "no" with a simple explanation. For example, "No, you don't bite; it hurts." This response should be consistent and repeated every time the child reacts aggressively. The idea is to show them that every action has a consequence.

This is also an opportunity to start helping your child manage their frustrations . You can offer support by offering them a hug or helping them express their feelings with words: "You're angry, I understand." This emotional support is essential for them to learn to cope with their emotions in a healthier way.